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## 最终结论
```python
def extract_singly(tuple_list):
    count_dict = {}
    for tup in tuple_list:
        for element in tup:
            if element in count_dict:
                count_dict[element] += 1
            else:
                count_dict[element] = 1
    
    result = [element for element, count in count_dict.items() if count == 1]
    return result

# Test cases
assert extract_singly([(3, 4, 5), (4, 5, 7), (1, 4)]) == [3, 7, 1]
assert extract_singly([(1, 2, 3), (4, 2, 3), (7, 8)]) == [1, 4, 7, 8]
assert extract_singly([(7, 8, 9), (10, 11, 12), (10, 11)]) == [7, 8, 9, 12]
```