The issue focused on gender norms was settled when Western feminism abandoned gender stereotypes as sexist ideas that oppressed women and oppressed men and switched over to recognizing gender norms as mutually reinforcing structures that reinforce gender inequality and domination in Western societies. Sexism has changed since then but gender norms remain rooted in patriarchy and patriarchy continues to oppress women and oppress men and vice versa. Gender norms aren't rooted in patriarchy so therefore neither can feminism change gender norms and feminism cannot force gender norms upon Western societies as feminism tries to do with regards to sexuality