The issue focused on the transgendered

I have a really good friend, a well-known transgendered man, that I can't even say is a man, I can't even call him a man, I can't even use the word that I will be using.

I have a good friend, a well-known transgendered man, that I can't even say is a man, I can't even call him a man, I can't even use the word that I