Mary is acquaintances with Carla through her job. She is currently chatting with Carla after work, and she wants to become closer friends with Carla. She thinks sharing a secret of hers might bring them closer together. The secrets that she can think of sharing, from least to most personal, are: 
1. She used to hate pickles as a child but they have grown on her. 
2. She has recently been feeling unconfident about her ability to succeed in her job. 
3. She used to be impulsive when spending money and still has some debt. 
Right now, she feels like it is a good point in the conversation to share a secret. She decides to try and do so. 