FSPO: Few-Shot Optimization of Synthetic Preferences Effectively Personalizes to Real Users

ICLR 2026 Conference Submission13900 Authors

Keywords: Personalization, Synthetic Data, Meta-Learning, Preference Optimization

TL;DR: rapidly personalize to users with few examples by learning from synthetic preference data through meta-learning

Abstract: Effective personalization of LLMs is critical for a broad range of user-interfacing applications such as virtual assistants and content curation. Inspired by the strong in-context capabilities of LLMs, we propose few-shot preference optimization (FSPO), an algorithm for LLM personalization that reframes reward modeling as a meta-learning problem. Under FSPO, an LLM learns to quickly infer a personalized reward function for a user via a few labeled preferences. FSPO also utilizes user description rationalization (RAT) to encourage better reward modeling and instruction following, recovering performance with the oracle user description. Since real-world preference data is challenging to collect at scale, we propose careful design choices to construct synthetic preference datasets for personalization, generating over 1M synthetic personalized preferences using publicly available LLMs. To successfully transfer from synthetic data to real users, we find it crucial for the data to exhibit both high diversity and coherent, self-consistent structure. We evaluate FSPO on personalized open-ended generation for up to 1,500 synthetic users across three domains: movie reviews, education, and open-ended question answering. We also run a controlled human study. Overall, FSPO achieves an 87% Alpaca Eval win-rate in generating responses that are personalized to synthetic users and a 70% win-rate with real human users in open-ended question answering.

Primary Area: applications to computer vision, audio, language, and other modalities

Submission Number: 13900